Teething can feel endless the first time it hits. Most babies get their first tooth around 6 months, but some start as early as 3 months or as late as 12 months. Knowing the usual stages and simple ways to help makes this phase easier for both of you.
Here’s the common order and rough ages so you can keep expectations realistic: lower central incisors (6–10 months), upper central incisors (8–12 months), lateral incisors (9–13 months), first molars (13–19 months), canines/eye teeth (16–22 months), second molars (23–33 months). Remember: some babies skip the average pattern and still end up with healthy teeth. Use the timeline as a guide, not a strict rule.
How long does each stage last? A single tooth can take days to weeks from first gum swelling to full eruption. Busy times are when several teeth come in within a few months — that’s when fussiness adds up.
Common signs: drooling, chewing on things, red or swollen gums, mild irritability, trouble sleeping, and refusing certain feedings. A low-grade temperature can happen, but high fever, persistent diarrhea, or vomiting are not normal teething symptoms — call your doctor if those occur.
Try these practical soothing steps: offer a chilled (not frozen) teething ring or a clean, cold washcloth to chew on. Use gentle gum massage with a clean finger to ease pressure. Offer solid cold foods like a chilled carrot or banana to older babies who already eat solids. Keep favorite toys close for distraction.
If your baby seems really uncomfortable, acetaminophen or ibuprofen can help — check the right dose for your baby’s age and weight and talk to your pediatrician before giving anything new. Avoid topical numbing gels with benzocaine for infants; they aren’t recommended for young babies.
Oral care starts early. Wipe gums with a soft, damp cloth after feedings. Once the first tooth appears, use a soft baby brush and a smear of fluoride toothpaste (about the size of a grain of rice). Schedule the first dental visit by your baby’s first birthday or within six months of the first tooth.
When to call the doctor: a fever over 38°C (100.4°F), persistent vomiting or diarrhea, obvious signs of infection (pus, severe redness), heavy bleeding, or no teeth by 18 months. If you’re worried, trust your instincts and ask your pediatrician.
Quick tips to make teething easier: rotate safe teething toys, keep nails short so they don’t scratch swollen gums, and keep feeding times calm. Teething phases are temporary, and with a few simple tools you’ll both get through them with less stress.
